The Christian Mother Archetype, "Mary"
This blog is a long time coming, and even now, I don’t feel ready. Instead of making even more excuses about why I can’t get started, I’m going to jump right in.
I won’t be spending a lot of time spell checking or even making sure I’m using proper grammar. I might even start a blog and publish it before my thought is finished. I may speak thoughtlessly, or express an ignorant opinion. I might shove my foot in my mouth. I may look foolish. I may share too much of my personal life. I may show myself to be vulnerable and errant. And I may just remind you of yourself.
I’m hoping that this blog will allow me to witness my own creative process in a way that’s nurturing and expansive. I’m relating to this blog as a therapy of sorts: the daily practice of witnessing life, without judgment, only a ton of compassion. I think we could all use some of that.
Most religions have Mother Archetypes who represent perfect compassion and love. The Mother Archetype also embodies the characteristics necessary to protect and nurture the divine child. Taken metaphorically, that is the spark of aliveness, wonder, innocence and love that lives in all of us.
One writer says this about the Mother Archetype,
“…Mother is about creativity and the very act of creation. It is also about nurturing, guiding, and supporting. Often mother demonstrates tenacity, protectiveness, resourcefulness. One of the great lessons of the mother archetype is the process of life and mothering. It is important to create, nurture, empower and release…”
“…Along the way mother may be called upon for willing sacrifice. Many a mother who has gone through the process of willing sacrifice came through realizing the process broke their heart wide open and they were filled with unconditional love – truly a potential jewel and gift of the archetype of mother…”
“…Great Destruction as well as Great Creation is a potential of the shadow side of the mother. We think of Mother Nature, not Father Nature, and hurricanes have traditionally been named based upon the symbolism of feminine destructive powers…”
“…So we have polar opposites: Creation / Destruction – and the duality contained within. The mother archetype can be a catalyst in the lessons of duality, all encompassing, and wholeness…It is truly one of the archetypes that if we bring into clarity and consciousness can help us understand ourselves at a much deeper level…”
With all that said, I’m thinking of this blog as a sort of cyber Mom, encouraging me to create and play and look and explore, but also assisting me in discerning which toys are no longer useful and feeding me the courage to let them go.
Perhaps my process of transparent witnessing will be useful to you as well. I hope so.
I will do my best to be as genuine as I can, shying away from positioning myself to look good and get it right. Even when I do get it right, and impress people, I’m left empty. Getting it right on those terms only proves I wasn’t enough in the first place. *sigh*
And we’re all enough. Mom said so.
Until next time, be well, or at least admit you’re not, and get a tub of ice cream.
A
*If you’re interested in a bit about Jung, and the concept of archetypes, this is a fairly simple article to get you started.
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I am inspired by your get it done no mater what attitude. We’re are all enough as your mom said.
I also read the article about Jung. Thank you and I’ll keep following your blog.
Thanks, Mac! It wasn’t my real Mom, but the archetypal/metaphorical Mom who encourages us to listen to our hearts and be true to ourselves. Hopefully I’ll use this forum for “good,” and it won’t devolve too much into a cynical indulgence. I’ll keep FB for that.
You didn’t tag me, but you know I’m so pushy I don’t need any invite to stalk near and far.
I am so glad you’re writing again, or at all. It is, after all, how we met
“I may look foolish. I may share too much of my personal life. I may show myself to be vulnerable and errant. And I may just remind you of yourself.”
Can I please quote you when I use this in the future? I want to frame it, tumblr it, and make it into a t-shirt.
It just made my fucking day. Zomigosh!
Wait, i didn’t tag you on the note i posted? are you serious?
well…the god must have known that you were an assumptive reader.
so glad to be back. but im a bit intimidated.
Girl, you know i”d be honored to be quoted by you.
hey, btw, what really got me all fired up about the blog again was the magazine i picked up on sunday called “artful blogging,”
it reminded me of how important it is for us to feel connected and to share our experiences….the good, bad, ugly, moving, celebratory and inspirational.
So, im here. we’ll see how real i can keep it.
You had me at “Accidental”.
Where is this magazine and how do I get it? My friend Zoe has begun “writing games” with me, which should help my writer’s block. This winter should see me really tucking in and I am excited to create my little heart out.
ooooh! I wanna play writing games with you!
you can google the mag, i tried to link it, but im techno-challenged.
you think i should change my blog name to the “accidental philo” again?
That’s completely up to you, but I thought it fit perfectly and was so utterly fitting and original. But, that’s just my opinion